I’ll try and keep it short
dd Is year 7
been on and off ‘going out’ with a boy a few times - not met outside of school so this is at school and on messenger
boy regularly posts himself vaping says he drinks alcohol.
today DD told me that a while ago he posted a pic of him with a knife
I urged dd to end it by saying she os not allowed a boyfriend - he said it was a dare anyway iv told her to just leave now
not now I’m worried about all sorts- ladt week he was threatening to ‘bang’ another lad
I want to report to school so they can keep an eye on but im worried they will speak to them and it will get bigger. This has happened in her primary school with a situation that would have resolved had adults not got involved so im really in 2 minds here