I know it’s not really an AIBU but I’m hoping people see this post. I posted recently, we lost our young cousin in a sudden road accident. He was a pedestrian and was killed by a car. I’ve taken a couple of days off from work and am due to return tomorrow. I need to prepare some material for work tomorrow and try to focus but I just can’t. I feel sick. The thoughts of getting in the car and driving to work has me feeling so shaken. I keep thinking of what happened and crying again. Any tips for focusing on work again when a sudden tragedy like this occurs?