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To worry about cafcass safeguarding letter

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Rickssaaaay · 07/01/2023 07:52

My ex is making a court application for contact
it says cafcass do a LA check
iv never been on a plan or anything but did do an assessment because o called the police and reported dv got a non mol then wanted to get back with him so I made a referral to csc. I then was referred with case closed and left the relationship after seeking support

will this come up? It happened in 2014

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Whowhatwherewhenwhynow · 07/01/2023 08:28

I would have thought that would be mentioned briefly because they will check with LA for history. However I would have thought this would only be a useful thing for you because it evidences the past abuse.

RodiganReed · 07/01/2023 08:36

Try not to worry, this will almost certainly come up, but you will also have a telephone interview where you will be able to talk through the context. It reflects well on you that you ultimately ended the relationship and haven't taken him back since then.

Rickssaaaay · 07/01/2023 09:14

Whowhatwherewhenwhynow · 07/01/2023 08:28

I would have thought that would be mentioned briefly because they will check with LA for history. However I would have thought this would only be a useful thing for you because it evidences the past abuse.

It wasn’t with DD’s dad so I think he will use this against me

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