Im a regular on MN but name changed for this.
I find myself at a crossroads in my life, so just wanting to hear from fellow mumsnetters with the perspective of hindsight to help me make a decision.
Have you considered yourself to have settled for your OH? if so what were your reasons for settling? how did it work out? Are you happy? Do you have any regrets? Did your feelings grow for them and did you fall in love with them with time?
By settled I mean, settling for someone you’re not physically attracted to, haven’t got chemistry with and perhaps they are a bit boring and sensible. But they are a good person, can offer stability emotionally and financially. You know they would be a good father/ parent to your children. And you just know you would have a secure life with them.
YANBU - if you consider yourself to have settled with your OH.
YABU- If you haven’t settled.