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AIBU (pregnancy hormones aside) or am would you be annoyed?

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Rookiemama1 · 21/12/2022 22:54

My boyfriend and I have been together near 2 years and I trust him a billion percent like wouldn’t mind if he told me he was judging the miss world competition and he’s the same with me. He’s told me all his past and I’ve told him mine. We were at a dinner the other day and there was a woman there who was an old friend of his so I was chatting away to her as was my boyfriend. After the dinner he said you know who that is? I said no and he went on to say that it was a girl (Who he had told me about before) that he was seeing years ago. I was a bit taken aback because he never mentioned it at the time and he chatted away to her in my company. I’ve seen him get miffed before about fellas, for example, asking about me so I was annoyed yes and I said to him if it was the other way about he would be too. I don’t care what happened before he met me but I was annoyed he chatted away to him. Am I being unreasonable and hormonal or would you be miffed?

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DrSmoot · 21/12/2022 22:57

YABU and probably just a bit hormonal I think.
Why can’t he chat to an ex?

PalindromemordnilaP · 21/12/2022 22:59

YABU and contradictory. You can't say you'd have "no problem with him judging Miss World" on one hand and then have a problem with him making small talk with an ex, in your company, on the other. Especially when by your own account he was entirely upfront about who it was etc.

PalindromemordnilaP · 21/12/2022 22:59

Agree with PP - the hormones are probably to blame.

YellowTreeHouse · 21/12/2022 23:02

YABU. What is there to be annoyed about? Confused

KitchiHuritAngeni · 21/12/2022 23:05

At what point during your chat should he have pulled you away to tell you?

Maybe when he saw you saying hi he should have rugby tackled you 🤣

He told you right away afterwards, I think you're being a bit daft.

Badgirlriri · 21/12/2022 23:17

YABU and daft.

Badgirlriri · 21/12/2022 23:18

Although, if I imagine myself in that same situation I’d be pissed off too 😂

Coffeellama · 21/12/2022 23:19

YABU and very obviously don’t trust each other ‘one billion per cent’

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