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To find it awkward when people coo over us kissing

24 replies

Baobuns · 11/12/2022 21:27

My boyfriend was with some friends, I went and met them after work.

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Obki · 11/12/2022 21:28

Stop sucking face in public then. It’s gross.

Changingplace · 11/12/2022 21:28

Are you sure they weren’t actually thinking, keep it to yourself? Were you snogging in front of his friends?

Ugh, I’d actually hate it if a couple we were out with did that.

Baobuns · 11/12/2022 21:29

Oops! They were at a bar and so my partner came up and gave me a kiss to greet me, just a quick peck and a hug.
The friends were watching and going 'aww!! Soo cute!!"
It happened again today with a male friend of his, he watched us kiss when I arrived to meet them and went 'aww, bless"

I'm just quite shy and self conscious and feel embarrassed when they do it. I know it's them being nice.
Aibu?

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Newwardrobe · 11/12/2022 21:30

Baobuns · 11/12/2022 21:27

My boyfriend was with some friends, I went and met them after work.

And what did you do? Peck on the cheek or full on snog?

Baobuns · 11/12/2022 21:30

We literally hugged and quickly kissed. Not face sucking,i wouldn't do that

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Newwardrobe · 11/12/2022 21:31

How long have you been together?

Baobuns · 11/12/2022 21:31

I think people replied before i posted the next bit

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Baobuns · 11/12/2022 21:31

A few years now

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wlanbsoo · 11/12/2022 21:37

Better than them shouting 'get a room' I guess

Baobuns · 11/12/2022 21:39

We're not snogging or making out or whatever. I do feel shy even kissing in front of other people, I hate the thought of being watched

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Changingplace · 12/12/2022 03:33

Baobuns · 11/12/2022 21:39

We're not snogging or making out or whatever. I do feel shy even kissing in front of other people, I hate the thought of being watched

Well don’t do it then, how weird

ComfortablyDazed · 12/12/2022 03:36

Then don’t kiss hello.

I’d hate doing that to an audience, too. So I don’t. I save it for when we’re alone.

How hard is it….? Confused

stillvicarinatutu · 12/12/2022 03:38

Stealth boast and a non problem. ?

TinFoilHatty · 12/12/2022 04:05

erm okay then.

cherriegarcia · 12/12/2022 04:07

Just tell your boyfriend that it bothers you and you don't want to kiss in front of people.

BigChesterDraws · 12/12/2022 05:01

You’ll grow out of it. Most teenagers do.

sevenbyseven · 12/12/2022 07:07

I think a hello kiss is fine. Ignore them!

NiLunNiLautre · 12/12/2022 07:22

sevenbyseven · 12/12/2022 07:07

I think a hello kiss is fine. Ignore them!

Of course it is! I hello kiss loads of people! Some strange and unnecessarily snarky comments on here.
Greeting a loved one with a hug and kiss is very normal and unremarkable. That said, if your BFs friends are annoying, OP, you have the option of ignoring it or not kidding.
I'd ignore it, personally.

NiLunNiLautre · 12/12/2022 07:23

*not kissing.

TiAmoTiAmo · 12/12/2022 07:25

Don't kiss on the lips then. You can't control what others do you can only control yourself.

MeMyCatsAndMyBooks · 12/12/2022 07:26

Aww how old are you? 17? 18? You'll grow out of it.

Sparklingbrook · 12/12/2022 07:32

This sounds like a problem from the Cathy and Claire problem page in Jackie. 👵🏻
What a complete non issue.

Thingsdogetbetter · 12/12/2022 08:11

They were in a pub drinking before you turned up. I'd suspect your bf was talking about you as a couple and being a bit loved up/mushy and they were reacting to that.

RolleenCooney · 12/12/2022 08:22

You sound very young. If you don’t like to kiss, then don’t. Simple.

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