I’ve been in a new job for a month now and I’m struggling to get on with my manager. The main issue is that she keeps telling me how quiet I am. I don’t think I am particularly (although what’s wrong with being quiet anyway). She has said a few times now ‘you are so quiet’ and ‘I only like talkative people’.
The other day she was having a conversation with a colleague by my desk and she was saying something while looking at me- I nodded at something she was saying and she said ‘don’t just nod, say something’ quite aggressively. I don’t know whether to ignore/avoid her as much as possible or to say something. Any advice?