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Liking revealing photos on social media

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Rhiannonx · 27/11/2022 21:47

Have come across a woman in her mid 20s who lives locally. She's had a few profile pictures which are quite revealing (no judgement at all) but I noticed that 3 local married men I know have liked most of the pictures 🙄
Would you be bothered if your partner did that? Or say if it was a friend of theirs? If it's just their face it's one thing but these are pictures with her bosom out

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Rhiannonx · 27/11/2022 21:47

One of the men is like 25 years her senior too..

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ZiggyAndChanelle · 27/11/2022 22:02

bit weird of you to be checking and noting who has liked this woman’s social media photos

DrinkFeckArseBrick · 27/11/2022 22:04

I'd be pretty disgusted with my husband if he did this. I think its pervy and disrespectful

georgarina · 27/11/2022 22:10

No, I would definitely not be ok with that

nobodyknowss · 27/11/2022 22:15

Yeah it's not very nice but it's a bit odd that you're keeping tabs of who's liking what.

Devoutspoken · 27/11/2022 22:20

It's a weird thing to do, what do these dirty old fuckers think they'll get out of it

WunWun · 27/11/2022 22:24

I wouldn't be okay with it, but I would also feel a bit uncomfortable if my partner was curtain twitching on social media about stuff that was absolutely nothing to do with them and pearl clutching about it

LabradorEyes · 28/11/2022 08:02

I would be worried about myself if I was looking into some unknown woman's pictures in social media, kept tabs about who likes them, and THEN created a post in another social media site about it. I would be seriously worried about my boring life and lack of other interests.

Rhiannonx · 28/11/2022 08:54

Your life must be pretty uneventful too as you've time to post on here love

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jtaeapa · 28/11/2022 08:58

Yes I think it is pretty unacceptable.

Liking photos or posts is actually not a passive thing to do. For example, if a kid is getting cyberbullied and a different kid likes the bullying posts that the bully has made, then the liker can be considered to also be a bully. Our school explicitly told us this.

Liking explicit photos of a randomer, especially when the liker is married, is a bit dirty and strange and I would be furious if my husband or son behaved like that online.

Cheesuswithallama · 28/11/2022 09:00

LabradorEyes · 28/11/2022 08:02

I would be worried about myself if I was looking into some unknown woman's pictures in social media, kept tabs about who likes them, and THEN created a post in another social media site about it. I would be seriously worried about my boring life and lack of other interests.

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DrMarciaFieldstone · 28/11/2022 09:06

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LadyOfTheFliessssss · 28/11/2022 09:09

I wouldn't even know about it in the first place because I'd have kept my beak out.

DrMarciaFieldstone · 28/11/2022 09:22

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Agreed with LabradorEyes, this should say

DrManhattan · 28/11/2022 09:23

Didn't we have this the other day?

nobodyknowss · 28/11/2022 10:45

Rhiannonx · 28/11/2022 08:54

Your life must be pretty uneventful too as you've time to post on here love

Well you've done the exact same thing 😂

MXVIT · 28/11/2022 10:49

Like a strange mix of Michael Pain the Nosy Neighbour and Alan Bennet's Lady of Letters ;)

Not great behaviour from them, but blimey not great from you either tbh, you must be a joy to live close to! I'd be scared my comings and goings were being noted in a journal!

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