We’ve known each other 3/4 years and every time we’ve met it’s been me that’s suggested it and picked the places. I’m bored of it now.
I have brought it up to her and she says she’s too anxious to plan anything or pick a place in case it’s rubbish.
The impression I get is she’s like that with all her friends, and she doesn’t have many friends at all. Should I just accept this is how she is? Part of me thinks it’s not that bloody difficult to say shall we go to a restaurant we’ve been to loads of times before.