i met one of my mothers carers today my mother passed away last year and she asked if the estate had been settled i said only just and told her online as she gave me her fb the issues i had in dealing with estate i then asked how other carers were i mentioned a few by name and there was no response it seemed like she was only concerned about estate and i now regret telling her anything as it seems like she only wanted gossip i hate dealing with people like that they act so concerned and sympthetic then becomes obvious they have an agenda