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To just want my own bed?!

7 replies

Mum233 · 14/10/2022 21:23

I love being on holiday but actually dread sleeping in another bed! I panic about it not being clean and nothing about it feels right. DH thinks I’m weird. Am I weird?! Is there anyone else who feels like third? Any tips to make it a more enjoyable experience?!

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Am I being unreasonable?

19 votes. Final results.

POLL
You are being unreasonable
53%
You are NOT being unreasonable
47%
BeautifulElephant · 14/10/2022 21:26

Is it only that that bothers you or do you panic about other things? Just wondering if it's OCD that needs treating with therapy.

Can you bring your own sheets?

Mum233 · 14/10/2022 21:33

Sorry should have said. Yes I have diagnosed PTSD (health/ germ related trauma) and OCD. I didn’t realise until recently when my husband told me it’s weird that other people don’t feel like this!

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EricNorthmanYesPlease · 14/10/2022 21:35

Im the same. I double check the bed in a hotel beforw i get in. Once i know its visibly clean I can relax though.

KangarooKenny · 14/10/2022 21:36

I take my own pillow if I can squeeze it in.

Icecreamandapplepie · 14/10/2022 21:37

Exactly the same here.

I have ptsd too funny enough, didn't think of the two as related.

I take my own pillows, only go to places with top reviews. Cry on the first night better on the second.

topcat2014 · 14/10/2022 21:37

Hotel rooms are cleaner than my house, and the towels are fluffier

ElbowsandArses · 14/10/2022 21:39

Agree with take own pillow.

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