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To ask where to buy nice plus size wedding guest dresses/outfits?

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Rosesandstars · 20/09/2022 23:07

Just as the title asks really. I'm attending a wedding in a month and I'm so embarrassed about my size that I've just avoided looking so far. I'm an 18-20/L top size and XL/20-22 in skirts. When I'm slimmer I'm an hourglass shape (big bust, good waist to hip ratio and still go somewhat in at the waist at my size but obviously I've lost a lot of my shape and even my middle is quite big).

I've looked at Boden, Monsoon, Simplybe, Coast, Hobbs and M&S.

Thanks!

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DancingBudgie · 20/09/2022 23:10

JD Williams

Nutsabouttopic · 20/09/2022 23:14

I got two beautiful dresses for wedding from In the Style. They have a wide range of styles and sizes. One was quite a formal dress and one was more summery

Judijudi · 20/09/2022 23:17

Studio 8 at Phase Eight
and make sure you get decent undergarment makes all the difference to how clothes fit and hang on you

nancy75 · 20/09/2022 23:18

Phase eight & Karen Millen both have plus size ranges

PenguinLove1 · 20/09/2022 23:19

Phase 8 definitely, coast also do good plus size. Or depending on budget check out local boutiques for wedding guests - they normally go up to larger sizes and are structured well so fit nicely

nancy75 · 20/09/2022 23:20

Also Warehouse & Debenhams

Happycow · 20/09/2022 23:20

Have a look at chi chi london. Some of the fabrics are a bit cheap but others are lovely

Qwerkie · 20/09/2022 23:24

This is my most favourite dress I have ever bought. It’s comfortable, flattering, gorgeous colour, perfect for a wedding. You can probably get it cheaper through another site. They have lots of colour options and you can get a version without sleeves

prettykittyfashion.co.uk/products/dark-green-floral-cap-sleeve-crossover-v-neck-wrap-top-swing-dress

Dragonskin · 20/09/2022 23:28

Scarlett and Jo or Bombshell

hellosunshineagainxxx · 20/09/2022 23:28

Asos

FinallyHere · 20/09/2022 23:36

Another vote for Bombshell

www.bombshellhq.com

If you possibly can, arrange a day trip to London to the boutique to try on everything. The different shapes work for different body shapes so the right one will work miracles.

Had my eye on the golden confident frock and matching coat, just need the right occasion.

Once you know which works for you, the drill is to order on line.

While you are in London, make an appointment afterwards at www.rigbyandpeller.com. Show them the frock you have chosen and they will find you the perfect under crackers.

Sunshinegirl82 · 20/09/2022 23:40

I'm a very similar size to you OP, what is your usual style of dress? Any colours you would have a preference for?

Lady V are nice, Scarlett and Jo and it's worth checking John Lewis. I know you said you'd checked Hobbs but I've found some great bits in there. Website threw this up as an example:

www.hobbs.com/product/eleanor-spot-fit-and-flare-dress/0122-5529-9045L00-MIDNIGHT-BLUE.html#navAjax=true&imageType=model&is=true&sz=60&start=-3&cgid=clothing-dresses&isSecondPage=false&pid=0122-5529-9045L00-MIDNIGHT-BLUE&pos=25

Sunshinegirl82 · 20/09/2022 23:46

I do also love a Bombshell but they are a bit more pricy so will depend a bit on budget.

Merryoldgoat · 20/09/2022 23:51

Chi chi London. They have very wedding guest dresses and sizes are good.

Eddieisadick · 20/09/2022 23:53

Sugarhill online

MarmiteCoriander · 20/09/2022 23:54

A friend larger than yourself has some lovely outfits from Scarlett and Jo. She found their customer service fantastic too.

Eddieisadick · 20/09/2022 23:54

And I’m that size and not embarrassed and always dress well.

NeverDrinkingAgainUntilNextTime · 20/09/2022 23:59

Boohoo and Asos do some gorgeous plus size clothing. I actually bought my wedding dress from Asos and I'm a size 24 x

vix3rd · 21/09/2022 13:53

Chi Chi london have a LOT of beautiful plus size dresses.

Strangestthings · 21/09/2022 13:57

I’m a similar size and swear by Never Fully Dressed

Rosesandstars · 22/09/2022 22:11

Thanks so much everyone- some great suggestions! :-)

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