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AIBU?

To not want to go out

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letmeknowwhenyourfree · 18/09/2022 10:47

Arguing with DH because I don't feel up to going out

Im 35 weeks pregnant so im exhausted anyways... but Thursday I had a sickness bug so didn't get a wink of sleep due to been up all night been sick then DS2 struggles sleeping so had him also whilst he slept.... and still managed to get the kids off to school an get on with the day as usual, Friday night I got a few hours around DS2 an then yesterday Iv started with tonsillitis, im in agony an he knows Iv always suffered with this but all night I havnt slept due to pain and feeling like a farm animals backside an only been able to see a doctor this morning.
He's moaning saying I never want to do anything lately ???? AIBU????



We have 3 other DC who he has NEVER taken out on his own all together and 2 have SEN/wheelchair so over the holidays I had them all 24/7 as we get no help off family etc whilst he worked (only for holidays, convenient I know) he's since left this job since the kids started back school!!!!!!! We didn't do much over the holidays as we had 2 big holidays just before they broke up so 1 - they both cost a fortune and 2- that was their summer holidays IMO as we go early due to it been quieter! So summer holidays i did do things with them just nothing OTT as I couldn't afford it every day??

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Sexnotgender · 18/09/2022 10:50

He sounds like an arsehole.

YANBU.

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letmeknowwhenyourfree · 18/09/2022 10:51

Sexnotgender · 18/09/2022 10:50

He sounds like an arsehole.

YANBU.

You took the words out my mouth !

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GoneWithTheWine1 · 18/09/2022 10:53

Why did you have another child with him? He sounds like an arse.

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girlmom21 · 18/09/2022 10:56

Tell him to take the kids out and let you rest and if you get a proper chance to recover you might feel up to doing something tomorrow.

I'm not sure whether you meant you have one child in a wheelchair and two with SEN or two in wheelchairs in which case it might not be feasible for him to take them out alone.

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letmeknowwhenyourfree · 18/09/2022 11:06

@girlmom21 2 with Sen but one is wheelchair bound. I manage just fine alone x

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girlmom21 · 18/09/2022 11:07

letmeknowwhenyourfree · 18/09/2022 11:06

@girlmom21 2 with Sen but one is wheelchair bound. I manage just fine alone x

Oh he can absolutely take them out alone then and give you time to recuperate x

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AnneLovesGilbert · 18/09/2022 11:10

He sounds fucking awful. You’re very optimistic to keep having children with him and presumably hoping he’ll step up. He won’t because he doesn’t want to and doesn’t have to.

Hope you feel better soon.

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