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AIBU?

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To be pissed off at the sexist cements?

22 replies

BigcatF · 07/09/2022 11:45

DH and I have always used either of the family's 2 cars, depending on need at the time.

He's just traded his vehicle in for a sports car, it's very nice to drive, and we'll carry on us8ng whichever car is most suited for out needs for the journey.

We were at our regular niche Wink hobby last night and went to the pub he was drinking, I was driving and quite a few comments from some men were of the ilk of "bloody hell, you're not letting the missus drive the car, are you?".

These men weren't really our friends but more acquaintances that we small talk to each week.

DH answered in a way that happy with, and I stood up for myself and dismissed their comments, but AIBU to be pissed off at the casual sexism?

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BigcatF · 07/09/2022 11:46

Fuck it's not even casual sexism.

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pointythings · 07/09/2022 11:47

I think the judicious application of cement in the form of overshoes to these men would make the world a better place. It's just outright in your face hideous sexism. So glad your husband stood up for you.

pinkyredrose · 07/09/2022 11:48

Tell them to stfu. I've a low tolerance for sexist arseholes though.

PrinceOfPegging · 07/09/2022 11:50

It seems they are quite concrete in their opinions

EdinaMonsoon · 07/09/2022 11:51

That’s not casual, it’s blatant. Good for you for standing up to them. This is the kind of BS I get all the time (I drive a powerful car) & it really pisses me off to have to constantly deal with it. My DH however thinks it’s banter. Glad to hear yours has a different approach

AryaStarkWolf · 07/09/2022 11:54

Yeah my tolerance for that kind of shit is at zero too. What did your DH say btw?

DwightShrutesYFronts · 07/09/2022 11:54

They sound a bit set in their ways

StaplesCorner · 07/09/2022 11:56

Damn I can’t think of any aggregate related pun.

richcouncilhousetenantfreehouse · 07/09/2022 11:58

DwightShrutesYFronts · 07/09/2022 11:54

They sound a bit set in their ways

Beat me to it.

DwightShrutesYFronts · 07/09/2022 12:00

Sorry! But it had to be done Grin

Elphame · 07/09/2022 12:02

I've had this - DP takes great delight in pointing out that the snazzy convertible is actually my car (which it is!)

We also trade cars as to whatever is the more suitable. It's hard getting a chest of drawers into a 2 seater although I have managed to get a folding wheelchair in once. Had to have the roof down to manage that!

Louise0701 · 07/09/2022 12:11

@StaplesCorner same 😂

LookItsMeAgain · 07/09/2022 12:14

PrinceOfPegging · 07/09/2022 11:50

It seems they are quite concrete in their opinions

I would have thought it was more of a grey area 😆

TwoLeftSocksWithHoles · 07/09/2022 12:18

I'd be mortarfied if this happened to me!

eurochick · 07/09/2022 12:23

I used to have a sports car. Sometimes people commented about my husband "allowing" me to drive it. He didn't have a licence and had zero interest in cars. Some people are nobs.

PS love the puns.

Pollydon · 07/09/2022 12:33

Next time ask them if certain cars need one to plug a penis into a slot before they start.
Worked on my FIL who wanted to know why I was driving a ' mans' car 😉

AryaStarkWolf · 07/09/2022 12:35

Pollydon · 07/09/2022 12:33

Next time ask them if certain cars need one to plug a penis into a slot before they start.
Worked on my FIL who wanted to know why I was driving a ' mans' car 😉

😂

Leafy3 · 07/09/2022 12:36

Only here for the puns!

I would have made them get out and walk.

But first I'd have taken a shoe so...hop.

BigcatF · 07/09/2022 12:40

Took me a while to work it out!

No idea how on earth that autocorrected to cement Grin

DH told them I was a better driver than most men he knows.

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Stangerthings · 07/09/2022 12:41

Gosh this is Hardcore!
Are they Hardened men!
Do you have Concrete evidence?
Are there any Cracks in your story?
Is this story a reMix?

CMOTDibbler · 07/09/2022 12:59

I have a very nice car. People want to talk about it a lot, but will always go up to DH - who shrugs and says they better talk to me about it as it is my car. When I bought it, he had to walk off in the showroom as the salesman did it too, and I then phoned the manager to tell them they better find me someone who could talk to me otherwise I wasn't going to order through them Smile

Leafy3 · 07/09/2022 14:16

Omg @CMOTDibbler your post came up on watched threads and thought you'd written EAR not car 😆

Thought it was going to be a very different post!

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