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To be annoyed about husbands constant comments

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LeftNotRight · 04/09/2022 12:59

What started off as funny is now starting to annoy me.
Dh constantly comments on other peoples appearance ( mostly women).

Not in a negative way but more complimentary.

I don't feel jealous at all but now he does it all the time it annoys me.

In front of our dc he will say things like

She's pretty isn't she ( a character in film or tv )

There was lots of pretty women today wasn't there ( whilst on a day out )

Jokes about moving to a certain town where he thought the women were exceptionally good looking.

I actually find it pretty creepy and I've told him this. He laughed it off and said it's a joke.

It's disrespectful isn't it?

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TimeForTeaAndG · 04/09/2022 13:01

Continuing to do something that he knows annoys you, whether it's commenting about other women or the correct way to make a cup of tea, is disrespectful.

PickAChew · 04/09/2022 13:01

It is. He's a knob and needs to be told this, every time he does it.

Swimmingpoolsally · 04/09/2022 13:01

Don’t think it’s disrespectful no. Annoying if constant but can’t see why it’s disrespectful it’s not s reflection on your attractiveness

ofwarren · 04/09/2022 13:04

I wouldn't put up with this. It's pervy and weird.

TabithaTittlemouse · 04/09/2022 13:04

Do it back. ‘Look at all of these gorgeous men!’

giveovernate · 04/09/2022 13:12

Yeah that's creepy and inappropriate.

LeftNotRight · 04/09/2022 13:14

@TabithaTittlemouse

I did try this once but I just felt stupid.

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MustardIsTheOnlyCondiment · 04/09/2022 13:19

It's disrespectful.

And he's teaching his sons to objectify women and it's really creepy of him to continually tell his daughter what he finds sexually attractive in a girl.

I'd say that every fucking time too.

Crabbyboot · 04/09/2022 13:19

Say, "that's nice, it's a shame they are all out of your league dear".

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