AIBU?
To be annoyed about husbands constant comments
LeftNotRight · 04/09/2022 12:59
What started off as funny is now starting to annoy me.
Dh constantly comments on other peoples appearance ( mostly women).
Not in a negative way but more complimentary.
I don't feel jealous at all but now he does it all the time it annoys me.
In front of our dc he will say things like
She's pretty isn't she ( a character in film or tv )
There was lots of pretty women today wasn't there ( whilst on a day out )
Jokes about moving to a certain town where he thought the women were exceptionally good looking.
I actually find it pretty creepy and I've told him this. He laughed it off and said it's a joke.
It's disrespectful isn't it?
TimeForTeaAndG · 04/09/2022 13:01
Continuing to do something that he knows annoys you, whether it's commenting about other women or the correct way to make a cup of tea, is disrespectful.
PickAChew · 04/09/2022 13:01
It is. He's a knob and needs to be told this, every time he does it.
Swimmingpoolsally · 04/09/2022 13:01
Don’t think it’s disrespectful no. Annoying if constant but can’t see why it’s disrespectful it’s not s reflection on your attractiveness
TabithaTittlemouse · 04/09/2022 13:04
Do it back. ‘Look at all of these gorgeous men!’
LeftNotRight · 04/09/2022 13:14
@TabithaTittlemouse
I did try this once but I just felt stupid.
MustardIsTheOnlyCondiment · 04/09/2022 13:19
It's disrespectful.
And he's teaching his sons to objectify women and it's really creepy of him to continually tell his daughter what he finds sexually attractive in a girl.
I'd say that every fucking time too.
Crabbyboot · 04/09/2022 13:19
Say, "that's nice, it's a shame they are all out of your league dear".
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