Hubby out today, something “told” me to look at his iPad and I saw text messages with a girl whose name has given me the… ick before (girls just know). She’s an old friend from uni who isn’t really friends with them anymore. In the message they talk about how the “Kik” down (an app for cheaters) and they exchange other messages which tell me there is something going on. I’m 95% she still lives abroad and 99% sure there is no physical cheating, but I know this tells me he’s “emotionally” cheating and sexting.
how do I handle this? I want to confront him
and have a worthwhile conversation, but The only “evidence” I have his a picture I’ve taken of my phone which shows this short SM exchange. Because they’ve spoken on Kik, I can’t get access to any other messages.
- do I confront him with what I have? And wAit for him to feed me bullshit?
- try and get more evidence (somehow , not sure how)
to be clear, should he admit it I would want to attempt work through problems. Any advice on what to say? Do? Do I wait? Confront him immediately? Ask him “who is Name name” and see what he says, or just come out with it? We’re married, have a child.