Creepy ex

[plasticpotato]

I went out with someone for about 6 wks at the end of last yr. I was quite clear why it wasn't for me.

Since then he's been quietly pursuing me, gifts and asking me for drinks - all rejected. His significant birthday a few weeks ago - left a long voice note(crying) and has a VVVV big bunch of flowers delivered. All a lot. Has since applied for a freelance job in my workplace. I've told my boss. Told her I am very uncomfortable with everything. He's started turning up in bars I go to. I've blocked him on social media and a few friends have also.

Any ideas? I'm really creeped out.

You have to log this with the police now. He’s a stalker.

Yep, police. Log EVERYTHING

sounds like marriage material to me OP.?

If he isn’t to your liking and you think he could possibly be a “weirdo, stalker, creep , scam artist, or a serial killer then I suggest you call the Police and report him Immediately.

Police

You should definitely contact the police about this one. Ask all of your friends to block him as well. If flowers etc arrive don't accept them.

I never say this in MN, but you need to contact the police. Don't let this escalate, a word now may nip this in the bud.

I would contact the National Stalking Helpline, details here: www.suzylamplugh.org/pages/category/national-stalking-helpline

Thank you. Im a bit worried whether I'm being dramatic but I do feel it is escalating a little. Thank you, I'll call the non emergency number and speak to someone now.