Would you drive an hour and 30 mins to get stuff from ex?

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I left his on Monday morning and left my shoes a dress and a top! My lovely £20 hair oils and some toiletries. would you go get it Or would you just re buy everything again and accept it for what it is😩 he is a cheat so that’s why things ended but kind of want my stuff back.

No I would just leave them and get more stuff.

How much are your travel costs? I’d consider whether it was worth it against the value of what you left. It’s just stuff and can be replaced.

Does he know where you have moved to? He could post it if you pay him once received?

100 mile round trip probably about £15! Could cry right about now but I don’t want to see him again.

I would go and get them. Can you arrange to call around whilst your ex is out?

For all of those things, yes. It’ll add up to quite a lot to replace everything. Just hold your head high, look amazing, take them and never look back.

I'd just leave it but if you really want the stuff can you take someone with you and they go collect it while you wait in the car?

I just want my stuff back don’t want him throwing them away. Their only cheap new look £40 heels but I wear them often. And my hair oils it was a full bottle I could cry!

I may just have to suck it up and go get them.

I would get them tbh.
Take a friend. Blast the music.

i would get them, i would not leave them it would annoy me

I am also petty and requested some pointless shit back before now from an ex a long time ago

Go with a friend and get. Fuck him.

Parcel2go.com are usually very reasonably priced for sending parcels!

Send him a one line text asking him to retain - for now.

Let the pain settle around your heart in your head and then, when you’re feeling less hurt & upset, make the trip.

Take a friend so she/he can go to his door to fetch it.
Do it with dignity.

I wouldn't personally go round, I've made that mistake before and he ended up worming his way round me and I stayed with him for another couple of months, it was hell. Get him to send them to you, or if you don't want him to do that, go with a friend or relative and get them to get them for you so you don't have to see him face to face.

I would take a friend, park round the corner, ask her to go there with a list. If you have a male friend that would be better.

I'd ask a friend or family member to get them, pay them petrol money and treat them to lunch.