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What would you consider to be the bare minimum?

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alexisrose2 · 23/08/2022 23:10

I'd be interested to get peoples opinions on whether they think this is the bare minimum as I've been told I'm being unreasonable.

I share a child who's 7, with my ex. Ex has DC overnight 7 nights a month. He pays maintenance through the CMS, which is £150 a month (he's not on a low salary but has other children to pay for too, through the CMS).

He doesn't contribute towards any school related costs, haircuts, doesn't take them to medical apps, doesn't help with homework or school projects, doesn't help with play dates or birthday parties, doesn't take him abroad but goes abroad himself. I could go on.

Am I unreasonable in thinking that this is the bare minimum he should be doing?

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