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To tell my friend what her partner said or keep quiet

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Endoworrier · 22/08/2022 09:19

Best friend wants to get married to her boyfriend they live together she’s very obsessed with getting married. She has said to me although he’s not keen on getting married now he will one day and has said that to her. At a recent event her partner told mine that he never ever wants to get married. I want to tell her what he said but at the same time he was very drunk and will probably deny saying it. Which will then cause a rift between us. I’m thinking if I do see the partner again I tell him what he told mine and tell him he needs to tell her himself.

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Cigarettesaftersex1 · 22/08/2022 09:20

Just keep out of it

FiveDollarMilkshake · 22/08/2022 09:22

FGS keep quiet, not your business.

ChrisTrepidation · 22/08/2022 09:23

There is a reason why the term 'shooting the messenger' exists.

Just stay out of it. Any man who says be wants to get married 'some day' is already waving a massive red flag in your face. Hopefully she'll see it herself sooner or later.

Endoworrier · 22/08/2022 09:28

Yes I’ll keep out of it I think just hard when she’s going on about wedding and baby’s happening soon and he’s clearly not there or ready for it

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