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Solo travel!!

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Achferfuckssake · 19/08/2022 22:09

So I’ve always wanted to go to the an island in the Indian Ocean because of various issues I’ve moved been. Now mid 50’s and looking at how finite life is, I want to go-it’s a definate bucket list!

Now here’s the thing- we have a child and if the both of us went, I would be afraid a tsunami may happen and we’d leave said child alone in the world😭. I’m happy to go there alone, what are your thoughts regarding this? Just to add I have no anxiety issues and am generally a fairly sensible person!

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mindutopia · 19/08/2022 22:13

Sounds fine to travel alone. What’s the island? Dh and I travel to/used to live in an area prone to tsunamis (decimated by the Boxing Day tsunami). We’d love to take dc there and a potential tsunami would not put me off. I think the benefits to your child of travel would far outweigh the risk of a (very very unlikely) tsunami. And anyway it’s pretty rubbish to lose your parent in tragic circumstances too, so I think it’s a bit 6 and one half dozen. Why not take the chance and enjoy it together? That said, I’ve traveled solo in Asia and it was fine.

AllFreeOwls · 19/08/2022 22:13

I'm not against solo travel, but this seems a very specific yet unlikely worry that I don't think it should put you off both going.

Whataretheodds · 19/08/2022 22:15

Can you look up the odds of being killed in a tsunami as a tourist and compare that with things you're not afraid to do - fly, drive, cross the road...

Achferfuckssake · 19/08/2022 22:22

No, the child would not be coming.when I say child she’s 18!

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Ducksinthebath · 19/08/2022 22:44

Insane not to travel together for fear of a freak event. You’re at more risk going in the car to Asda or whatever.

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