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Job offer waiting hell

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waiting911 · 18/08/2022 14:57

Posted in 30 days but so quiet there! Waiting to hear about dream job, a number of candidates being hired to build a team. My final interview went well, recruiter seemed very enthusiastic on follow ups, asked for reference checks.

Email sent to candidates on Monday morning saying we would hear ‘by the end of this working week’. AIBU to think it doesn’t look great that I haven’t heard a thing since?! Words of reassurance appreciated! X

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unicornpower · 18/08/2022 15:01

no advice but I’m in a very similar position! Was told by the end of this week too and still not heard! The recruiter called me and I’ve got a teams call with the HR director tomorrow but it’s between me and one other currently. YELP.

have you reached out again to the recruiter just to double check? It’s a new kind of torture isn’t it!

Summerhillsquare · 18/08/2022 15:03

Took a week after interview for my employer to offer me the (sole) post. I had given up hope!

resuwen · 18/08/2022 15:06

Honestly - no. There are so many reasons why recruiters take a while to get back to both successful and unsuccessful candidates alike. Job offers have to be agreed by the whole hiring panel, the recruitment team, and in some cases finance or a senior manager. Only one of these people has to be busy/unavailable/on holiday/ sick for there to be a delay. I was offered two jobs recently, in both cases it took them so long to get back to me that I had given up! I've experienced this as a member of the hiring team too. It's a frustrating time for the candidate, but it's perfectly normal!

berksandbeyond · 18/08/2022 15:10

Ah the waiting is the worst. Good luck OP, I hope you hear soon!

waiting911 · 18/08/2022 15:13

Thank you for reassurance and solidarity 💐 waiting is so hideous!

The thing that makes it worse here is that on Monday they were categorical that we would all hear by end of play tomorrow. My fear is that they are busy contacting successful candidates first? But because they are hiring several of us, my DH thinks it’s likely that they would reject first and it would take time to follow up on references for the successful ones…I think he might just be trying to make me feel better though?!

aware it’s pointless speculating but UGH. Good luck to all those waiting xx

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toffeechai · 18/08/2022 15:17

I’ve never ever heard about a job by the date they’ve said, however sure they sounded - these things always take longer than expected!

Doesn’t make the waiting any easier I know. Best of luck.

Justcallmebebes · 18/08/2022 15:22

I'm in exactly the same boat Waiting so I feel your pain. I interviewed a couple of days ago and really, really want this job as I am so miserable where I am.

Had a text earlier today saying when could he call to talk (the interviewer) as he wants to discuss some good news. Then NOTHING.

The suspense is killing me.

All the best Waiting - I hope you get it

waiting911 · 18/08/2022 15:28

@toffeechai - thank you! Fingers crossed.
@Justcallmebebes - you’ve clearly got the job if they’ve said they want to talk to ‘discuss good news’! They’re probably just trying to find a moment to call you xx

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Justcallmebebes · 20/08/2022 08:55

Thank you Waiting. I GOT THE JOB. So bloody happy. 14 years of utter misery over in 4 weeks. New place and boss is like a breath of fresh air.

Hope you get yours too OP

waiting911 · 20/08/2022 16:21

Congratulations! I got the job too! X

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toffeechai · 20/08/2022 16:29

Hooray!

ClottedCreamAndStrawberries · 20/08/2022 16:38

Well done @waiting911 and @Justcallmebebes I also got a new job this week! It’s an NHS band 6, been a 5 for too long so it’s lovely.

As for those waiting, I actually turned down a job offer on the day I got offered the 6. They had taken a month to send my informal Offer out for the band 5 which is why I went on this other interview. Anyway, I expect they will just phone the second choice candidate and they will have also received some nice news this week. That’s another reason why you sometimes don’t hear back for ages.

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