To be passed off with my family

MrsTerryPratchett · 16/08/2022 01:21

^AIBU to think as 3 adults they should have given a,shit about if I was OK ?*

Yes, but also as an adult I would have had my locker key, sunscreen and phone on me. And I would have said, "OK big slides for you. When are you back here?"

WeAreAllLionesses · 16/08/2022 01:22

Who had the locker key?

IfOnlyOurEyesSawSouls · 16/08/2022 01:24

Yes I would be upset by the thoughtlessness.

Vecna · 16/08/2022 01:57

I don't now, I think perhaps they expected you to be self-sufficient. As an adult. You should have had your own locker key. You obviously had different interests at the park and you weren't interested in doing what they wanted to do. Unless there was a good reason someone else was responsible for your belongings, yabu.

RedToothBrush · 16/08/2022 02:59

fUNNYfACE36 · 16/08/2022 01:19

We are on holiday-me,dh, dd20 and dd17. Today we had tickets for the watermark. we arrived, got changed and put everything except towels in lockers and found some sunbeds. Everyone else grabbed inflatable hoops I had said I didn't want to go on the big fast slides.They disappeared and i expected them back in a few minutes as nant of the slide end pools were nearby. 2 hours Iater they finally show up, having left my all that time with no access to anything in the locker sunscreen, book,phone, and no clue they would be so long. I wanted to swim, go in the lazy river and the wave pool but not on my own I looked for them times but the park is vast
AIBU to think as 3 adults they should have given a,shit about if I was OK ?

So you didn't think and prepare for the situation and are just blaming it on them im sure if you had gone for a swim they would have been able to find you eventually...

... Try communicating when you express a wish not to participate. 'oh i dont want to do that. Can you make sure i have stuff whilst you go do it? What time are we meeting?'

This is not a hard task to initiate yourself.

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fUNNYfACE36 · 19/08/2022 01:25

Vecna · 16/08/2022 01:57

I don't now, I think perhaps they expected you to be self-sufficient. As an adult. You should have had your own locker key. You obviously had different interests at the park and you weren't interested in doing what they wanted to do. Unless there was a good reason someone else was responsible for your belongings, yabu.

The lockers were 10 euros each whi h is why we shared. You put all your valuables in the lockers a v d then pay for anything you need with a wristband

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theniceunderstandingone · 19/08/2022 01:30

Yeah tbh for 2 whole hours I would be pissed. But I always have a book with me so would've passed the time with that.

How annoying for you OP

Chillow · 19/08/2022 01:32

YANBU. Who had the licker key? I was just about to say, lockers are expensive and we usually just get one locker as it fits all of our things.

I think they were a bit thoughtless to leave you alone for so long but they probably caught up in the adrenaline of queuing up for the big rides.

I don’t understand why you didn’t go on the lazy river, wave pool etc on your own? Yes, it’s fun with others but there’s no way I would have sat around, I would have gone to enjoy those things on my own.

SeasonFinale · 19/08/2022 01:33

So keep the locker key next time. YABU in the situation you describe