Hey everyone, so ..... i dropped my phone and broke the screen so i was using my partners old phone until mine was repaired. I came across a series of messages on the phone the gist is it was a girl he matched with on tinder (before me) and she was from Scotland we live in Ireland she was in Ireland for a hen party and they were txting to try meet up, there was no mention of sex in these messages however they where flirty (i have very cuddly arms and i need your hairy chest was mentioned🙄). The thing is these messages were sent 6 months into our relationship were now together coming up 5 years, we have a daughter and bought a house together. I can't shake this from my head tho they didn't meet up the messages stated that cause he couldn't get a babysitter (for my stepchildren). When i look at him i feel our whole relationship is built on a lie he would have cheated on me if he could have he totally denys that he wanted to have sex with the girl. I dunno what to belive am i being stupid as this was so long ago? Should i just get over it? Help!!