My OH and I live outside of London where everything is expensive. He studies from home and our nearly 5-year old attends school locally. Back in January, I changed jobs (have always been the primary income earner) and now work 3-days away in the Midlands. OH refuses to move, even though he desperately wants a second child, and the Midlands are much cheaper (comparatively). I'm at my wits end and no idea what to do. Some friends say I should just change jobs, others say I should leave him... Ugh... frustrated and stressed. Help?