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Ex smuggled weed abroad

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Toomanytakeaways · 08/08/2022 08:13

The person who I was with nearly 10 years ago. He smoked weed daily at home (yes I have no idea why I was with this person)
Anyway we went on holiday one time to Spain. As we exited Spain airport he told me quietly that he'd smuggled weed into the country between 2 CDs.
I was furious but I guess I didn't have the self esteem to end things or report him.
Looking back, I can't believe how stupid I was. Could it have been a custodial offence?
Also, I may have been guilty by association even if I hadn't been aware of it.
I can't believe I put up with that trash.

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Toomanytakeaways · 08/08/2022 08:14

I've never touched it in my life and will never again date a regular user. He was abusive and the weed clearly affected him

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Revolvingwhore · 08/08/2022 08:17

Wow. The selfishness and stupidity of people is unfathomable. He could have got you both in so much trouble, it doesn't bare thinking about.

Toomanytakeaways · 08/08/2022 08:19

He told me not long after that he would 'smash my head in' so I was pretty terrified of him in equal measure. I just can't believe the trash we put up with when we're young sometimes

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waterbotherer · 08/08/2022 08:20

You’re being overly dramatic

Toomanytakeaways · 08/08/2022 08:20

Also I meant 'The Spanish airport' I know there isn't just a collective 'Spain airport' lol

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Beefcurtains79 · 08/08/2022 08:20

You wouldn’t have got in trouble since you weren’t carrying it, why are you still thinking about it?

Toomanytakeaways · 08/08/2022 08:20

Am I? Well what would have happened if he'd been caught?

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Toomanytakeaways · 08/08/2022 08:21

Well after reading the thread on here about the woman who went to prison for knowing of her partner's involvement in a crime.. nothing surprises me

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CherryColaRoller · 08/08/2022 08:21

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Sux2buthen · 08/08/2022 08:22

I can understand the threat of violence still playing on your mind but the not the airport bit. Other than as an eye roll 'glad I'm rid' thing.

JorisBonson · 08/08/2022 08:23

It's shit, and wrong, but it was 10 years ago 🤷🏻‍♀️

Butchyrestingface · 08/08/2022 09:05

My father's mate accidentally smuggled weed through Alicante airport one time they were coming back from holiday. When I say accidentally, I was told that he'd 'forgotten' he had it on him, which indicates a small amount. How much was your ex carrying - a lot?

I'd have been fucking thrilled if my father had spent a few weeks in the slammer on account of the shit company he keeps, but no such luck. Grin

balalake · 08/08/2022 09:15

I am glad you are no longer with this man. Doing illegal drugs is condoning the number of young men who are killed because of this activity.

OneTC · 08/08/2022 09:21

If it fits between 2 CDs then no probably not, small fine, slap on the wrists, done

Notimeforaname · 08/08/2022 09:33

I know many people who bring a small amount away with them for every holiday.

Toomanytakeaways · 08/08/2022 09:40

I didn't realise it wasn't a big deal I guess, I don't know what the Spanish laws are concerning this but indeed I shouldn't think of it anymore. Sometimes thinks just come into your head at random

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hewouldwouldnthe · 08/08/2022 09:48

Ex did this going to Turkey, smuggled it in his shoe. Was a good few years ago though.

Sunnyqueen · 08/08/2022 09:50

Report him seriously??

mosex · 08/08/2022 09:50

I accidentally took cocaine on the plane from Colombia. Just had a tiny bit in my pocket I'd forgotten about. Fucking hilarious you should have seen mr in the toilet trying to get rid of it 🤣 20 years ago, who gives a shit

10HailMarys · 08/08/2022 09:58

I mean this kindly: your problem here is not that your boyfriend had some weed on him when you went on holiday to Spain, your problem is that you are dwelling on this 10 years later.

He had some weed in his luggage. Nothing happened. You are no longer with him so you don't have to worry about it.

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