To be upset by the way he is treating me

[Gummybear97]

I was seeing a guy for around 6 months. He randomly started ghosting me without any explanation. The last time we spoke was just over a week ago and I last saw him 3 weeks ago.

I knew the relationship was over but I had left some of my things at his house including one of my tops, my toiletries bag with some of my makeup and a few other bits. I’ve tried asking if I can get them or he can leave them outside mine (we live near each other) but he read my message and didn’t reply. I just think it’s horrible the way he has treat me when seemingly everything was fine before he started ignoring me. Aibu to be upset?

YANBU at all. I hope you get your things back soon.

What a bastard. I hate immature behaviour like that. I'd be tempted to go round and get my belongings if you live close. Then block him.

He knows he's been a shit and doesn't want to face it.

Keep on about getting him to leave them outside, or at yours. Failing that turn up at his house with a friend, when you know he is in and get them back.

I am sorry he has behaved this way, especially after six months😔.

I would just turn up one evening and get my stuff.

What a prick OP.