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I've told him the truth.

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Furrbabymama1987 · 03/08/2022 11:26

Some of you may remember my previous thread. I was questioning my daughters paternity and found out that her father was a teenage guy I had a relationship. I had previously thought she was my ex partner's but had always has concerns but too scared to find out the truth.
I thought I'd provide an update. I was against telling him initially but I changed my mind and last week contacted him, he replied back and he knows he has a daughter. He was shocked and wants to do a DNA for his own peace of mind and is unsure of what he wants to happen after that, but we have been in regular contact since and he is interested in seeing photos of his daughter and learning about what she's into and stuff. He says he can see himself in her. He wants to meet her. But I don't want to introduce him and then he decides that he doesn't want to take it further.

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Failuretolaunch28 · 27/08/2022 23:21

I’ve just seen your update & I remember your original post. That’s great I hope it all works out for you.

did he know he had a daughter before you text him or do you mean he was surprised as the message from you was the first time he had heard it. If it is the latter I would say it’s a bit crappy of him to not get in touch but I guess he may have been scared that your ex would be difficult.

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