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To wear my DGFs ring

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girlwhowearsglasses · 29/07/2022 22:32

DF died recently and in his box of mementoes we found a box with his DFs wedding ring in it.

it fits my right middle finger, it’s a plain gold band.

would it be weird to just wear it? I never actually met my grandfather - and for various reasons my DF wasn’t close to him, but what else to do with it? Not much point in leaving it in a box…

tell me what you’ve done with redundant but nondescript jewellery you didn’t want to sell

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CherrySocks · 29/07/2022 22:36

If it doesn't upset anyone, and it's yours to do what you like with, then why not make use of it.

DeltaAlphaDelta79 · 29/07/2022 22:36

If it means something to you then wear it. Personally I would sell it and put the money towards something else, as I'm not very sentimental and I dont wear jewellery, but theres no reason not to wear it.

Ontomatopea · 29/07/2022 22:48

Put it in a box to pass down to the next generation to keep in a box. Or if times get desperate sell it.

OzziePopPop · 29/07/2022 22:50

You could have it melted/remade into something you prefer? My mum did this years ago with a few of her own old pieces that had dated/she didn’t like anymore. Find a nice independent craftsperson or jeweller and work with them to create something ‘you’ 😀

Carrieonmywaywardsun · 29/07/2022 22:52

I think it's fine, I wear Dh's uncle's ring just because I loved it and no one wanted it when he passed away. I'd rather that than selling it or leaving it in a drawer

yikesanotherbooboo · 29/07/2022 22:53

Nothing at all wrong with this, much better than it sitting in a jewellery box doing nothing or getting lost!

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