If you received a wedding invite for the evening part only and the function was being held in a really rural, awkward to reach (I don't drive) place with no chance of a lift and no train station or public transport near the venue, would you attend?
It's my cousin's wedding. Huge family and she invited everyone except my sister and I to the whole day plus the evening bits. I think we were left out of the main ceremony and afternoon bit because our parents and hers fell out a while ago.
My sister lives abroad and has already RSVPd to say she won't be attending.
I really don't want to go (especially without my sister). I've never been close to this cousin and only ever see her at weddings or funerals anyway. No relationship with her really.
I really can't justify forking out hundreds of pounds to attend the evening.
How can I decline in a polite way?