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to be traumatised by strip search

17 replies

mummyeliza · 23/07/2022 02:26

this sounds so stupid when put in writing but the anxiety is keeping me awake at night :(( i was strip searched last week in iceland and what should have been a fun family trip was ruined and i haven't been myself since. very invasive and i feel like a common criminal.

OP posts:
stillvicarinatutu · 23/07/2022 02:31

Why were you strip
Searched?

ShirleyPhallus · 23/07/2022 02:38

What happened?

mummyeliza · 23/07/2022 02:39

there was a misunderstanding and i was accused of shoplifting a bottle of ysl black opium at the airport duty free

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ForAFriend123 · 23/07/2022 02:40

mummyeliza · 23/07/2022 02:39

there was a misunderstanding and i was accused of shoplifting a bottle of ysl black opium at the airport duty free

What??!!!!

justfiveminutes · 23/07/2022 02:50

What was the misunderstanding?

mummyeliza · 23/07/2022 02:50

i bought a bottle of a black opium flanker by accident which i didn't want but was the same price as the regular black opium. on the way out i put the bottle i bought but didn't want back on the shelf and took a bottle of the regular one instead x

OP posts:
HollowTalk · 23/07/2022 02:51

Did they find the perfume on you? If not why did they think you had it?

mummyeliza · 23/07/2022 02:52

yes they did as explained above!

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justfiveminutes · 23/07/2022 02:56

But why did they strip search you to find the bottle, when you had presumably just handed it over with an explanation, showed your receipt etc?

StClare101 · 23/07/2022 02:56

mummyeliza · 23/07/2022 02:50

i bought a bottle of a black opium flanker by accident which i didn't want but was the same price as the regular black opium. on the way out i put the bottle i bought but didn't want back on the shelf and took a bottle of the regular one instead x

That was a crazy thing to do! You should have taken both bottles to the register with your receipt and asked to swap.

The strip sesrch is awful though. I would have expected them to check your bag and perhaps pat you down. Is that an Icelandic thing???? I would feel completely violated if that happened to me and would certainly not forget it in a hurry.

Fafafafabetter · 23/07/2022 02:57

mummyeliza · 23/07/2022 02:50

i bought a bottle of a black opium flanker by accident which i didn't want but was the same price as the regular black opium. on the way out i put the bottle i bought but didn't want back on the shelf and took a bottle of the regular one instead x

Well then they were justified. You don't just swap a product. You need to take it back and officially exchange it. You would have absolutely looked like a shoplifter

NiceTwin · 23/07/2022 02:57

Oh gosh, I can see why you were suspected, is a strip search normal in shop lifting circumstances?

justfiveminutes · 23/07/2022 02:58

I don't understand the circumstances. They saw you take a bottle and drop it in your bag. They approached you and you explained what had happened, showed them the bottle, showed them the receipt. Did they think you had a second bottle?

stillvicarinatutu · 23/07/2022 03:09

That's bonkers . You could have just taken the original bottle yku didn't want to the counter and asked to swap .

Something not adding up here I'm afraid. You aren't telling the full story .

justfiveminutes · 23/07/2022 03:10

I've reported the thread. Sorry if it's genuine. Suspect poster looking for similar strip search stories.

ChiTorpedo · 23/07/2022 03:13

justfiveminutes · 23/07/2022 02:58

I don't understand the circumstances. They saw you take a bottle and drop it in your bag. They approached you and you explained what had happened, showed them the bottle, showed them the receipt. Did they think you had a second bottle?

This exactly. Strip searches don't happen for a suspected shoplifting offence!

Myhusbandsnores · 23/07/2022 03:19

mummyeliza · 23/07/2022 02:50

i bought a bottle of a black opium flanker by accident which i didn't want but was the same price as the regular black opium. on the way out i put the bottle i bought but didn't want back on the shelf and took a bottle of the regular one instead x

What a stupid thing to do. I’m struggling to believe you did that. You wouldn’t do that in Tesco, you’d go to customer services or back to the cash so why the hell you you do that in an airport where there’s security everywhere. Bonkers.

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