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WIBU to ban DP from ever listening to music again?

45 replies

Changenameobviousreasons · 22/07/2022 19:49

lighthearted before I get a reprimand

Red Sovine. It has become apparent my DP of a long time really likes his music. Whilst sitting listening to music this eve he decided to play me one of his songs because "I'd love it."

We have very different overall tastes in music but can both be quite eclectic and open minded when it comes to music.

Readers, it was awful. I nodded along politely to the first song..... By song 5, for the first time ever, I had to leave the room. My ears were bleeding!

WIBU to block DP from YouTube music as a result? He wouldn't have a clue how to set up Spotify or anything so I think it could work!

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Verbena1 · 22/07/2022 19:55

I was intrigued as I have never heard of this singer so went on Utube. You lasted for 5 songs!???? You must be the definition of tolerant.😂

Changenameobviousreasons · 22/07/2022 20:00

🤣 Did you get as far as "Teddy Bear?" or the follow up songs? Honestly, it's awful. He played TWO ALBUMS of this to a colleague on the way up North once apparently.... More man had to tell him to turn it off.

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MasterBeth · 22/07/2022 20:03

How old is your partner?

dropthevipers · 22/07/2022 20:25

Just tell him that this will have to be solitary vice you never see or hear about. Still, count yourself lucky, it could have been a real deal breaker like Chris de burgh.

Loics · 22/07/2022 20:26

Ooft, my taste in music is quite generous and I do like a lot of country, but that is tedious.

VeniVidiWeeWee · 22/07/2022 20:31

Unless it's vynil you're unreasonable.

Changenameobviousreasons · 22/07/2022 20:33

I don't mind country generally - but this is truly awful!! Over the years he's played me some rubbish across many genres but this really took the biscuit. I'm not sure what I expect though, this is a man that calls Led Zeppelin "a racket." Maybe I should just LTB 🤔

@MasterBeth He's 47 so he's hardly ancient!

@dropthevipers I think I'd almost rather Chris de Burgh

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dropthevipers · 22/07/2022 20:41

Changenameobviousreasons · 22/07/2022 20:33

I don't mind country generally - but this is truly awful!! Over the years he's played me some rubbish across many genres but this really took the biscuit. I'm not sure what I expect though, this is a man that calls Led Zeppelin "a racket." Maybe I should just LTB 🤔

@MasterBeth He's 47 so he's hardly ancient!

@dropthevipers I think I'd almost rather Chris de Burgh

Then, and it gives me no pleasure to say this you are beyond help.

Changenameobviousreasons · 22/07/2022 20:46

@dropthevipers listen to 5 x Red Sovine songs then say that 😂

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GretaVanFleet · 22/07/2022 20:47

My DH has a highly questionable taste in music, things like Terry Jacks - Seasons in the Sun, Don Maclean - Vincent, Billy Ocean - Suddenly, Dean Friedman - Lucky Stars, bit cheesy. I hate a lot of his musical choices, but it’s not all bad.

LivingDeadGirlUK · 22/07/2022 20:49

Wow, that is awful :P

Changenameobviousreasons · 22/07/2022 20:50

@GretaVanFleet same with mine, many questionable choices. He's a reggae /country/ 60's lover hybrid. Mostly not my first choice but perfectly fine. Some things just take it too far though haha.

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dropthevipers · 22/07/2022 20:52

Changenameobviousreasons · 22/07/2022 20:46

@dropthevipers listen to 5 x Red Sovine songs then say that 😂

Please accept my sincere apologies. Fuck me, that's beyond grim. I thought at first it was some kind of sick parody.

TheGrimSqueakersFlea · 22/07/2022 21:00

My dp likes that shit too

heldinadream · 22/07/2022 21:29

But but but but - he doesn't actually sing, is that right? I only tried 2 and I skipped through them so I may have missed it. But the bits I caught, well, oh my, oh howdy, gee willikers. Or something... GrinGrinGrin

Hawkins001 · 22/07/2022 21:31

I like music on YouTube as sometimes it's the song with video with e.g. shows like supernatural, or various films, but I prefer a mix of songs, rather than specific bands.

bluegardenflowers · 22/07/2022 22:07

Alexas playing it now...is it a pss take? He busted his little girl, wtaf is that all about?

bluegardenflowers · 22/07/2022 22:08

Something about ruining the grass?

bluegardenflowers · 22/07/2022 22:09

I'm with you op. Lasted 1 shit song.

NeverDropYourMooncup · 22/07/2022 22:24

Why not try to get him to listen to something with a bit more edge?

I'd suggest Tango in the Night. I reckon he'd find Tusk a little too metal for his tastes.

Changenameobviousreasons · 22/07/2022 22:34

Hahahanhe does generally choose wel (I'm being polite here. 50/50 well/tolerable) No clue where this Awful curve ball has come from.

@heldinadream

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Changenameobviousreasons · 22/07/2022 22:36

Sorry, screen slipped! @heldinadream its a strange talking/singing/faux crying. Just bizarre.

@LivingDeadGirlUK good name lol

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EntertainingandFactual · 22/07/2022 22:45

🤣

Iwantcollarbones · 22/07/2022 22:46

My dh is into trance music, a fact he hid for years into our relationship. It’s just the same noise over and over until it ends. He has recently started trying to suggests ‘songs’ that he thinks I might like. The last one had lyrics that just went ‘from front to back’ over and over. I sat there the whole time wondering why someone was singing about best feminine hygiene etiquette 😳

Verbena1 · 23/07/2022 06:57

That’s where I started, and ended.