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To think they should contact me?

3 replies

FlissyPaps · 21/07/2022 18:23

I work full time, Monday - Friday in an office environment.

I am also trained in various beauty treatments (nails, lashes, brows) for some extra income around my working hours. I am mobile, have a car and travel to clients houses. I do not advertise this, as I only offer for close friends, family, colleagues and any mutual friends.

A good friend “Anna” is a regular client of mine. She mentioned one of her friends “Jayne” (who I have never met) is interested in booking a treatment with me for Thursday.

I text Anna saying “You can give Jayne my number and then she can contact me to arrange an appointment.. etc.”.

Anna then sent me Jayne’s number. I assumed this was so I could save it down.

A few days go by. No contact from Jayne.
Anna messaged me today saying “Did you speak to Jayne?” I replied “No I haven’t. I thought you were going to give Jayne my number to contact me?”

Anyway, we both realised it was crossed-wires, But Anna is still thinking I will be able to travel to Jaynes tonight. I was slightly annoyed as why should I go out of my way to message a potential client? To me, it feels pushy. If they are interested in one of my treatments, they should contact me. I am absolutely shattered from working full time and feel really awkward contacting this lady I have never met before to arrange an appointment for tonight.

Sorry I never intended for this to be so long … but am I being unreasonable here?

OP posts:
GreenFingersWouldBeHandy · 21/07/2022 18:25

No, just apologise for crossed wires, say you never agreed to an appointment this evening and that you had been expecting this lady to contact you.

Idontgiveagriffindamn · 21/07/2022 18:25

Neither of you is being unreasonable it’s just a different way of doing things. Some people would be happy to contact a prospective client but you’re not one of them.

LaurieFairyCake · 21/07/2022 18:28

Yes they should have contacted you

But if you need the money then you will chase her

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