ML just winds me up !

[MyML]

I can't even stand to look at her. The hairs on the back of my neck stand up when I hear her voice or when I see her / need to spend time with her.

She literally infuriates me and I feel a bit nauseous and have a ball in the pit of my stomach as soon as I hear the door bell when she's coming over and generally when she's around.

So many things have happened. Has anyone felt this way about someone and had things change for the better somehow ? Usually whenever I've felt like this about someone, I could stop seeing them. That's difficult with MIL of course.

Oh goody, another I hate my MIL thread! 🙄

What issues have you been dealing with, op? I can relate a great deal to how you're feeling.

I can last about two hours. Most of the time I just don't go, and let DH handle the relationship. I think we are both happy with this. She can't stand me either I don't think.

Just countless ones to even talk about. But they've left me feeling this way. I completely distrust her as well. I can literally only see her as some sort of devil. I think it's also how I want to see her partly, because like anyone, she's not 100 percent evil. I always look for ways in which to justify my point of view in her behaviour. But she's said so many hurtful things, that I can't help it. Always personal attacks too.

Basically any time I've ever set a boundary, she has called into question my character and she's even called me insane before for always misunderstanding her helpful comments and behaviour.