To wonder why I feel like this?

[Boho197]

Hi all

I’m seeing a guy and when I see him it feels good and I enjoy his company. As soon as he leaves though I feel really terrible. When I last saw him he wanted to leave pretty much straight after the sex. Why do I feel like this?

Sorry OP ☹️ that doesn't sound good at all!!

I still vividly remember when my BF (now DH) would leave, I would feel much prettier and better with myself than when he didn't come ☺️

It's because he's not meeting your needs and you're feeling a bit used for sex. Throw this one back.

Try suggesting going out somewhere together and gauge his reaction.

He's using you for sex by the sound of it.

Sounds like something within you is trying to ring some alarm bells so I’d listen to them. Leaving pretty much straight after sex is a bit of a shitty thing to do unless you knew beforehand he needed to go

He leaves straight after as he's had all he wants from you at that point. It makes you feel terrible because you don't want to be used for sex. You want more than he does. End of story.