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Random men shouting abuse

22 replies

SlouchingTowardsBethlehemAgain · 11/07/2022 14:12

Recently, I passed a guy in the street and he shouted "pissing fucking dyke" at me - youngish bloke - I am 69. I shouted back "What the fuck is wrong with you" and went on my way. Not the most articulate response but I was taken by surprise. Why on earth do strange men shout at women in the street? Its a good thing we don't have guns in this country, I would have happily shot his angry little head off.

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Turnthatoff · 11/07/2022 14:13

I’d have buried the body. Solidarity, sister.

phishy · 11/07/2022 14:14

YANBU. Hope the little scrote dies.

RudsyFarmer · 11/07/2022 14:14

They’re normally angry at women because they want to fuck them and can’t.

FionnulaTheCooler · 11/07/2022 14:16

They are inadequate losers who are clearly so lacking in certain areas that the only way they can feel like a big man is to behave this way. Pitiful creatures, really.

Thelnebriati · 11/07/2022 14:18

Imagine being so far up yourself that you think a random insult is going to have a devastating effect.

NightmareSlashDelightful · 11/07/2022 14:18

I honestly think it's mental illness of some sort. To hold onto that much hate and direct it at a random stranger — no rational, logical, reasonable mind does that.

ComDummings · 11/07/2022 14:19

They are just bitter angry people.

Theoneinthemiddle · 11/07/2022 14:19

I ignore anyone that I have not chosen to converse with. Why should I care about the opinions of a stranger on the street. Everyone who sees them is going to think they are weird and rude. Well done though!

HappyMom1122 · 11/07/2022 14:22

They are just fucking bitter people. They think behaving in this way makes them a big man. Fuck off.

Badbadbunny · 11/07/2022 14:27

Almost certainly either drunk, high on drugs or mental health issues. "Normal" people in fit mind don't do that.

peachescariad · 11/07/2022 14:27

I'm going to save this in my head and have it ready if/when it happens to me....men do it cos they work on the assumption that most woman will just ignore or shout 'fuck off' etc...but my approach is to challenge them....they aren't expecting it and hate it and squirm themselves deeper up their little arses.

I'd say 'what gives you the right to fire insults at me?' 'does it make you feel like a real man....you feeling all big and manly now mate?'....'Ill show you how manly you look to me..' then hold up thumb and forefinger with about an inch between them and say 'this big mate....this is about how manly you look to me....it's about the same size as your dick'

Bonjovispjs · 11/07/2022 14:29

It's their tiny penises that make them so angry.

NightmareSlashDelightful · 11/07/2022 14:30

peachescariad · 11/07/2022 14:27

I'm going to save this in my head and have it ready if/when it happens to me....men do it cos they work on the assumption that most woman will just ignore or shout 'fuck off' etc...but my approach is to challenge them....they aren't expecting it and hate it and squirm themselves deeper up their little arses.

I'd say 'what gives you the right to fire insults at me?' 'does it make you feel like a real man....you feeling all big and manly now mate?'....'Ill show you how manly you look to me..' then hold up thumb and forefinger with about an inch between them and say 'this big mate....this is about how manly you look to me....it's about the same size as your dick'

I think a swift challenge is good — assessment of personal safety factored in of course — but I also think your longer response is giving an arsehole too much time and breath, to be quite honest! Why waste the energy, you're just giving them what they want — attention.

steviewiththecankles · 11/07/2022 14:31

It baffles me. What on earth do they get from it?

Iusyje · 11/07/2022 14:35

Perhaps some of them hate their sisters, mums, aunts and think every woman they meet should pay for whatever wrong the females in their family did or didn't do. Sad little men.

SlouchingTowardsBethlehemAgain · 11/07/2022 14:43

That guy would not stand a chance against the vipers.

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Georgeskitchen · 11/07/2022 15:01

He's probably a druggie or alcy or both. I wouldn't tak it personally it just happened to be you passing. Tomorrow it will be another woman.
Unlikely he'll do it to a bloke for fear of being buried!!

myuterusistryingtokillme · 11/07/2022 15:23

peachescariad · 11/07/2022 14:27

I'm going to save this in my head and have it ready if/when it happens to me....men do it cos they work on the assumption that most woman will just ignore or shout 'fuck off' etc...but my approach is to challenge them....they aren't expecting it and hate it and squirm themselves deeper up their little arses.

I'd say 'what gives you the right to fire insults at me?' 'does it make you feel like a real man....you feeling all big and manly now mate?'....'Ill show you how manly you look to me..' then hold up thumb and forefinger with about an inch between them and say 'this big mate....this is about how manly you look to me....it's about the same size as your dick'

I'd head tilt and just say 'awwww, is your tiny penis making you angry?' with the little finger wiggle

myuterusistryingtokillme · 11/07/2022 15:24

Well I wouldn't, I'd probably scuttle off mortified, but in my head that's what I would do!

ChiselandBits · 11/07/2022 15:26

@myuterusistryingtokillme ooh I like that one - I will definitely remember that one!

EmmaH2022 · 11/07/2022 15:28

Good on you for responding. What did he do?

I had two teen lads do this to me recently. They were passing close by so my epithet was right in their faces. They seemed quite shocked.

Awwlookatmybabyspider · 11/07/2022 15:33

Because they're too s*t scared to shout anything to a bloke so hes clearly taking his tiny d*k complex out on you

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