Big age gaps between babies

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help me I think I’m having an existential crisis!

I had a baby young (16) he is now 10. I am fairly confident I’ll want another baby one day but not yet. However I’m scared shitless that if I wait say 5 years to have another then I’m gonna regret it? I feel like time is running out to have another and I just don’t know what to do. I’m just getting started in a decent career path and I don’t want to take time away from that at the moment. Also me and DP are getting married in autumn after 11 years together And tbh life is comfortable at the moment which I know is more than a lot of people

has anyone had a big age gap like this between children

aibu to want to wait

There is a seven year gap between myself and my older brother, when I was still playing with lego he was at university, while we get along we are not that close. My sister is a couple of years older then me and we are best mates with most of my childhood memories involving her in someway.

That's crazy to think you could have kids 25 years apart!