How many times a month/year

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If you have kids how many times a month/year do you go out in the evening with friends?

As often as I can 😂but not enough

I’d say twice a month, weekly with DH

Literally never. I haven’t been out since before covid was a thing.

I'm happy with once every few months.
I could go out more but I'm happy with that.

This are making me think I need to change! Cant remember when I last did! Usually just once or twice a year!

With friends like never, with DH maybe once every 2-3 months or so

I usually work late, have a work event or see a friend twice a week. I'd love to do some exercise too but struggling to find the time

As a couple: not on the past 3 years. City before then, aprox once every 3-4 months, but we had a babysitter that we switched with.

With my friends: every couple of months.

Friends? What are friends? 😂

@Antsinmypantsneedtodance im actually not sure I know 😂

About once every other month for me. I think I'd like to do it more often, but in all honesty I'm too tired after a long day and actually enjoy staying in and relaxing.

This is how I feel. I just work, look after the kids, do housework and sleep. On repeat.

2 kids
Probably use a babysitter 4 times a month to see friends but mostly going to their houses rather than going out out

If I wanted to weekly but I’m a introvert who loves her own company! DH usually every week or biweekly (which suits my introverted need to be alone 🤣)

Never out with friends in evenings😅🙈 once or twice a year for date night as we don’t have family near by sadly

Never.

I actually can't remember the last time when. At a guess, 2016!

When the kids were younger, at least once a month but sometimes weekly depending on if we had booked a concert or had birthdays. I saw them in the daytime a couple of times a week as well.

Now our kids are teens, we go out for dinner every couple of weeks but we socialise at each other’s houses more as well as it’s easier.

DH and I go out (separately) about once a week or so. We both work hybrid and tend to organise things on the days we're in the office and the other person stays home. Next week DH is out 3 nights which is unusual but I'm out 2 nights the week after so it all balances out.

When the chicken were little maybe one evening and one weekend afternoon.

Now they’re teens usually about 4 or 5 evenings.

Children not chickens 🤣

I have lots of friends in my choir and we often go out after rehearsal. Go out with other friends once a month or so. I would say once a week on average. DH and I go out together once a month. He is less sociable than me so is happy for me to go out without him.
Sometimes I don’t feel like going out and socialising but I have a tendency towards anxiety/depression at the moment and always feel better about life in general when I’ve spent time with friends.

Never. I don't really have local friends I'd go out with. I go out with dh a couple of times a month. It's not because of the dc - they are teens and can happily be left. We just don't go out much in the evening! I go to choir and yoga once a week and dh goes out fishing and plays in a band.

Most weeks. Grumpy if I don’t.

Sort that out OP!

Do you mean 'go out' in the purely social sense? I've always gone out at least once/twice a week in the evenings since my DS was born - he's 21 now- but my 'going out' tends to be volunteering, WI, committees etc - activities I genuinely enjoy as I am with friends but it's hardly going out drinking/dancing which is not my scene. I meet friends for dinner perhaps once a month. DH has his own separate social life!

None, oldest is 7 1/2 I’ve never spent a night away from her ( apart from when gave birth to youngest) or left them with anyone so I can have an evening out. Last night out was the day before I found out I was pregnant.