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Moral Dilemma

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Wowserme · 30/06/2022 22:49

If you purchased something using your credit card and it was pending clearance for a few days then just disappeared completely, but the item you purchased is still being sent.
Would you come clean and tell the very large company?
I’ve always taken great pride in being a honest decent person so I’m now shocked that I’m even questioning whether to do the right thing or not.

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Stopthebusplease · 30/06/2022 22:51

Has the item already arrived? If so and your card isn't debited within a month I'd ring the company the item came from and ask whether they've taken payment, but that's just me.

bishbashboshhhhh · 30/06/2022 22:55

still time for it to ho through so wouldn’t count your money chickens just yet

AdobeWanKenobi · 30/06/2022 22:56

They have seven years to take the payment OP. Depends whether you fancy your chances that you can still cover it when it’s taken by surprise the week before Christmas in 3 years time, because that’s exactly when this shit happens.

id do as @Stopthebusplease suggests personally.

stayingpositiveifpossible · 30/06/2022 23:26

No because it will pop up again.

Maybe they don't have it in stock and need to refund as someone said wouldn't count your chickens.

Meraas · 30/06/2022 23:40

I’ve always taken great pride in being a honest decent person so I’m now shocked that I’m even questioning whether to do the right thing or not.

Why so self-congratulatory? For honest people, there would be no dilemma.

Wowserme · 01/07/2022 00:35

Why so self-congratulatory? For honest people, there would be no dilemma.

Not self congratulatory at all, just factual but thank you for your thoughts

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VeniVidiWeeWee · 01/07/2022 00:42

Wowserme · 01/07/2022 00:35

Why so self-congratulatory? For honest people, there would be no dilemma.

Not self congratulatory at all, just factual but thank you for your thoughts

I’ve always taken great pride in being a honest decent person so I’m now shocked that I’m even questioning whether to do the right thing or not.

Why post if you don't care?

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