Update

[Derrymare]

I posted on here before about my dp and his case to stay with me in this country. I received alot of negativity and was made to feel very depressed. I would like to say that today I've received the news that he can stay.

Fantastic!
I didntsee your previous posts but this great news for you both and I'm really pleased for you :)

Can you link to the previous thread?

I didn't see your previous thread but congratulations. You must be delighted.

Are you the one with the abusive partner?

Are you the lady who was told to have a baby with said partner so he would be more likely to be allowed to stay?

Why didn’t posters want your husband to stay?

You were already depressed. It’s not fair to lay that at the door of randoms on a forum. I hope he sticks with you as you hope and that you find other support. It’s not healthy to depend so heavily on one person. Good luck.

Are you the poster who is totally reliant on him for care/support because you are highly vulnerable, and he is totally reliant on you for money?

If so, regardless of whether he stays, your relationship remains very unhealthy.

No to alot of what you said if you search my name I think you will find the post.
Thanks for the congrats I'm so happy.

Pretty much what all of us has said is correct; I’ve just found your PP. I’m surprised at their decision but I hope you have on other support in place now.

I remember your other thread. I'm so happy for you! Sending love ❤️