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I'm not wrong am I?

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harryshousee · 17/06/2022 16:51

Been friends with my friend for over 20 years.
We have totally different ways of life.
I enjoy going out travelling /cocktails etc and she never socialises at all and has no friends bar me.
It's her life and her choice.
Yet she has turned so so bitter.
Her cousin went on holiday ...she said to me
"Did you see her putting pics all over Facebook and checking in at the airport"
I didn't like any of those posts and I won't ..(yet she has no issues with her cousin and speak regularly.
Her words (don't know who she thinks she is swanning around)
If I go out /weekends away I might post things to Facebook ...and she never ever likes anything I post.
Yet she's active liking random things on Facebook and commenting on people who she doesn't even really knows pics "have fun hun" etc etc
I know it shouldn't wind me up but it's like she hates me or anyone she's close too having any fun.

It's got to a point now where if I don't text her she doesn't speak to me.
It makes me sad it's came to this.
Why is she like this ? Am I wrong in thinking this?

OP posts:
Robin233 · 19/06/2022 14:12

I have this to a lesser degree.
In the end I just stopped any effort at all.
Do you know what happened?
Nothing.
I hadn't even realised it was me doing all the running.
Then I was blocked. (Fb)
I miss them, love them and hope it's not forever.
But I must respect, that for now we have different paths to walk.
My mum / grandma always use to say 'it'll all come out in the wash'

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