Its probably been answered byt I cant see it.... what happened to the tart thread?

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I haven't seen a deletion notice.

got pulled my mumsnet hq whilst the checked behind the scenes apparently

Deletion notices don't show on Threads I'm on any more. Unless they've fixed it recently.

can't help you with the tart thread though

It was wildly implausible, with the huge clumsy hints about the horrible husband getting into some sort of MRA ideology blah blah lockdown blah blah and the whole room falling silent over the tart-based remark.

Mind you, I suppose stranger things have happened.