To be fed up of ALL of the deleted threads

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Yes, I know this will be deleted too.

But the amount of times I comment on or read something and go back later to catch up and it's been deleted because 'OP had second thoughts' aka the thread wasn't going their way or 'We don't think this is helping the OP' aka OP got whiny when the thread didn't go their way is making the site so much less fun.

I'm dying to know what happened to the thread where the woman got a strange letter from the 'bank' which accused her DH of spending money on Adult Work.

It's even more annoying now there's no deletion message unless I dig through my history and click on the link.

Yes! I thought it was just me going mad, the deleted threads still used to show up in my watched list and I could see the deletion message but now they seem to just disappear