I'm almost 47, with two small children, work, volunteer and just feel exhausted all the time.
live rurally, so more often than not wear functional clothes.
I'm not overweight but I definitely don't look after myself and it is really getting me down.
I've totally lost my sex drive/va va voom: I just don't feel desirable or attractive at all.
I go through fits and starts of trying to make an effort - get my hair done, update my makeup but that's about it. My day to day life just isn't one to make me feel focused on me/looks/sensual feelings etc.
I've started using vagifem but it doesn't seem to have had any dramatic impact on my sex drive. Is this it?!
I look back sadly to my twenties and miss feeling and looking good (feeling sexy). It's just not possible with day to day functional life!