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To have left (for now) over this?

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BlueSnorf · 09/06/2022 08:41

NC as outing. Partner came home from after work drinks very drunk and proceeded to smoke in the living room as it was windy outside. I own the house (completely), he could have stayed at his - baby is unwell with a respiratory tract infection, I am unwell with the same thing, preschooler looks like they are coming down with it.

Have packed two bags and gone to stay with my inlaws because the house absolutely stinks. I am so furious.

I need to come up with something sensible to tell him to get it sorted but I also need to calm down enough to actually write a text.

This is the second offence - just in case that makes any difference.

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ProclivityForPyrotechnics · 09/06/2022 08:44

I wouldn't leave if it's your house

WildOats5678 · 09/06/2022 08:44

Smoking inside your living room is absolutely disgusting but even more so when he knows that baby and yourself are ill with an infection. The only difference I would have done is heaved him out on his arse instead of leaving my own home!

BlueSnorf · 09/06/2022 09:54

The reason I left was because the house stank and the residual effects of smoke etc.

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