Husband following porn creators on instagram

[Dontknowhowtofeel5]

So my husband is following 2 people on instagram who make porn on only fans. He doesn’t know them personally, so guessing he was looking at stuff when he found them. All their pics on instagram are of them in very little clothing/underwear etc. we had a baby 4 months ago.
When we had our son 3 years ago he’d been looking at hashtags of people on instagram I matching underwear. I confronted him about it - I already wouldn’t like it but given that I had recently given birth it made me feel even worse. He just said he’d fallen down at rabbit hole of clicking on things.
AIBU to be really bothered by him following these women now? I don’t look anything like them and it’s really making me feel shit about myself. I keep thinking that he’s been looking at them before he’s had sex with me to get himself going.

Bump

You feel how you feel. Perfectly valid.

He's a creep.

Ew gross, you poor thing :(
Fell into a rabbit hole. Disgusting. Don’t know what to suggest so I can’t offer you any constructive advice but you’re not being unreasonable. Big hug lovely

Husband's a bit of a sleaze really isn't he.

Is it Mike and Jess Miller?

No, it’s some random blonde 22 year old 🙁

I’d be really sad to OP. Aside from leaving him there’s not much you can do, in all these threads you see the wife has told H she’s not happy with it and he continues doing it.

Thank you. I don’t think it’s enough to break up over but it just seems so insensitive of him and he really doesn’t seem to think it’s a big deal. He said ‘it’s only instagram’. He couldn’t even remember when we’d had pretty much the same issue 3 years ago even though it really got to me.

Id hate it too but i think it is really common. How many men used to read the sun with its page 3 models ? Or read fhm? Or watch love island ? It's no different to that is it really.