To ask what to do?

[Wildyouth]

In my youth I was a wild one, probably fuelled by my alcoholism. I had a one night stand, with a guy who’s dad walked in on us ( I was 6th form he was at uni from my school). However, I’ve now been sober for 14 years and my partner and children have never known me drink. All is fine, apart from one night stand dad guy is now a coach / on the committee where my boys have started playing football. Sooner or later I’m going to run into him, (actually I nearly have a few times but dodged it) in a situation which is unavoidable. So what the hell do I do? Ignore it, hope he doesn’t remember me? But that’s a pretty memorable thing, I know he got bollocked by his dad the next day! Do I mention it? Keep avoiding him? Change football clubs?! I’m part mortified and part finding it funny ( I defo would if it was happening to a friend!)- tell me, what to do?!

I wouldn't do anything, it was 14 years ago! He may not even remember it, especially as it was just a one night stand.

Do nothing at all. Why would you mention it?? He’s probably forgotten it was so long ago.

After 14 years he probably doesn't recognise you. Just front it out.

Don't do anything, it won't come up. You are all adults now.

Do nothing, I can do that, and just hope my aged face looks much different 😂

Definitely dont mention it , I see a bloke I had a one night stand with years ago a few times a week while I'm walking the dog . He says hello as most dog walkers round here do , I often wonder does he remember me dashing off early one morning , but I would rather wonder than ask 😂