Exdh left 8 years ago, we have two dc.
He is very much an in and out father, sees them often for a few months then disappears for weeks at a time, so all in all not great.
I applied for cms 2 years ago as I’d had enough of struggling to cope on my own, anyway he has another child who he lives with and I’ve just received a letter to state that said child’s dm has made a claim for cms, whilst they are living together making out that they aren’t.
I know he has a responsibility towards all his children, but this really smacks of pettiness and a dig at me.
I don’t get on with either of them and there is a hell of a back story, which I don’t want to get into. But am I right to be pissed off at this? There has been no offer to help out nor be around more so that I’m able to work more to bring extra money, and I am just bloody raging.