i work in the public sector, we are getting a visit from a royal member. My manager and a few people are excited, others including me are indifferent. My manager has suggested that the women curtsy and the men bow. Most of the team have refused, including me. I will be happy to say hello but will absolutely not cursty/bow for anyone. In fact only 4 older people have agreed with her. Younger members of the team have said no. My manager thinks we are disrespectful. AIBU to refuse to curtsy.