My child 8yo with additional needs has always had disturbed sleep. It's exhausting as you can imagine. Over the years there has been slow improvement.
Currently they want me in their room all night. This gets us both the best night's sleep.
I want to sleep in my own room in my own bed for at least a few hours. Occasionally this works out (still get woken at least 3x per night) but mostly it means missing even more sleep and having to sleep during the day at some point which I can't afford and don't want to do. AIBU?